Comments on: 3 Lessons I’ve Learned in 3 Years of Marriage

By: Maria Brilaki

Maria Brilaki — Thu, 05 Aug 2010 12:55:25 +0000

I liked your last comment, about you thinking that some people that are 50 years together “are meant to be together”, while you have now realized that it’s through work that they have managed to have so beautiful relationships!

This reminds of some ballet dancers that make the most difficult moves look so easy…

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By: TaxGuy

TaxGuy — Tue, 06 Apr 2010 14:43:41 +0000

Congratulations. This gave me confidence in my own relationship. Thanks.

By: Clayton

Clayton — Sat, 03 Apr 2010 00:45:48 +0000

Congrats, I’m just starting on my third year of marriage. I absolutely love it and I have come to feel that one the unwritten things I vowed when I got married was to make a committment to care enough to try every day. I find it to be a very conscious decision that doesn’t just happen.

After the intial honeymoon phase of the relationship you make that decision to put all the time, energy, and effort into it just like when you were dating. It can be really tough, but knowing that no matter how great or horrible I am, that she is with me to the end and I am with her to the end boosts my determination to make it the best journy possible.

By: Moneymonk

Moneymonk — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 18:46:02 +0000

You forgot to add the other event “pregnant again” LOL

Just kidding

Thanks for sharing. Good advice you gave

By: Ouida Vincent

Ouida Vincent — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 12:44:23 +0000

Congratulations! I have been with my partner for over 15 years and it is work. “Meant to be together” is a load of hog wash. May start out that way but successful relationships are work in the end. Flexibility is key, especially as you start to age with your partner. Being confidently vulnerable is a great term. For us, the fights come when we are too afraid of “being out there” with the feelings.